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I’ll continue gate keep what clubs I work at. When I travel danced I asked managers for advice and other dancers at the club. I’ve even had customers tell me what clubs I would do great at or should visit. I didn’t just get online asking for a handout from strangers. I did my own research.

We’re strippers each trying to make our own bag. Why would we encourage more competition? My averages are really high at my main club. I’m not going to tell anyone I don’t know what club that is. I don’t owe them anything. We are free to give advice as we see fit.

You can call me a hater but there are more than enough girls working at my club. I do have an abundance mentality, but I have my boundaries with what information I share. Even though I’m making great money, some of my dancer friends that aren’t great hustlers are struggling because the club is over saturated. I’d rather them have an opportunity to make money than some random girl I don’t even know.

It’s interesting to me that other dancers want to judge us because we aren’t giving club recs. And in in their mind, it’s only justified if the girl doesn’t want to dox herself. Why don’t they make a post with all the clubs that they recommend so they can put them on? Since they feel so strongly about it. Instead of coming at us with all that BS telling us to be better.

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Edit: I help my fellow dancers at the clubs I work at. I’ve also given solid advice here about different things. I’m just not going to name drop my clubs because I choose to be selective with who I tell. So go ahead and stay mad. It’s no affecting my bag 💕

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Yes 100%

So much of it is just trial and error. And that might mean trying three clubs before you find the best one for you. Or it might mean trying ten- it’s different for everyone. Some girls make a ton of money on stage at an urban club and others focus on VIP at GC. It varies so much.

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Well I’d assume most dancers haven’t been in the industry for 20 years LOL

If a girl paid you for the info would you answer

Also I can't recommend clubs if I don't know that person. Different personalities work for different clubs. And different girls do well with different customers.

You can give advise but you can't teach common sense, assertiveness or street smarts to someone who doesn't have it.

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Exactly! Like how are you gonna be mad that girls don’t want to name drop. I don’t even know you. Clubs are over saturated and even though I do believe in abundance, I don’t need 20 new girls showing up at my club.

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When I first started dancing a girl asked me to cash app her 20 dollars a question

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Lmao girl I stay in VIP and I help my girls (that I work with at the club). I don’t owe these online strangers anything. You’re just mad because I choose not to disclose where I work. Sounds like a personal issue to me. You don’t even know me and you’re coming at me so mad. It’s funny though thanks for making me laugh

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I’m talking about dropping club names online don’t get it twisted. I’m definitely a girls girl when I work at the club. And I have recommended clubs to girls that I like. I’m just not about to put strangers that I don’t even know on the clubs I work at when it’s already over saturated.

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You miss read what I said I said I paid for information. I usually give out information for free

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But I’m saying the majority don’t. If most dancers were dancing for 20 years we would all be 40. Most dancers are in their 20s and some are 30.

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Girl was trying to be messy and misunderstood what I said.

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