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Okay so I had taken about a month break to focus on myself and self-care. Came back to the club this week. Keep in mind I’ve officially practiced manifestation for two weeks now but it’s worked wonders for me already .I feel beyond blessed and hope this can help some of you who have been struggling.
So I started binge watching manifestation videos when I came across a random video on TikTok that resonated with me. I started applying it every day. Not just saying affirmations, but truly being delusional and saying it as if it’s already mine. Creating my new reality and living it. I’ve also been reading books on manifestation to get a better understanding of it.
I start off every morning with 10 minutes of gratitude, setting an intention, and getting into an abundance mindset .Then I continue with my affirmations. The difficult part is trying to constantly be aware of my thoughts throughout the day. Making sure that I stay positive and staying focused on my new reality.
I have been telling myself every day that I attract the wealthiest clients that want to spend their money on me. That men respect me and value me and my time. That I’m irresistible and magnetic as fuck. I am a money magnet and attract money easily and effortlessly . (You can tailor your manifestation based off what you want). You might feel silly and feel a ton of resistance in the beginning so it’s important to do shadow work.
I have worked three shifts this week . Every shift I surpassed my goal. Men have been kind, respectful, and generous towards me .It’s felt so easy. I have been giving attention to men that in the past, I wouldn’t even approach. I genuinely feel like I’m providing value even though when I’m in VIP we are talking the majority of the time.
Last night, I didn’t really start making money until midnight. I was a little nervous waiting at the bar for that last rush to walk in. A waitress grabbed me randomly and introduced me to her customer in VIP. He was so chill and kind and I ended up walking away with several thousand. For those of you that have considered practicing manifestation this is your SIGN to go for it .It’s been transforming my life in so many positive ways.
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That is completely true! Also you necessarily don’t want to approach every single customer (some are regulars that we know won’t spend money). There have been times I sit and chat with a customer and also get rejected in some way. Which is totally fine. Rejection is redirection .
I think as strippers we get really good at reading body language and it benefits us well. However, there is always something that we can learn and improve on. So definitely focus on what you think your weaknesses are and improve them.
I would say that you should come early if you see that it benefits you to do so .For example, I don’t find a huge difference in my income if I come at 7 PM vs 9pm. However, I do see a difference in my energy level if I come later in the night. I’m not as anxious and there’s more of a crowd by that time.
Yes ever since I started changing my mindset every shift has been great. Manifestation has been pouring abundance to me in every area of my life. I love it here ❤️
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I think you can work smarter not harder and that goes for anything in life . Going into the shift telling yourself that you will be productive every minute you’re there. I think some dancers become fearful of rejection or don’t want to approach customers because of assumptions they make. This is money they are potentially missing out on.
I have listened to an podcast about detaching yourself from the outcome of situations. Because when you’re attached to an outcome, that energy comes across as needy . I totally relate to that. I used to focus on only selling VIP rooms. If a customer wanted dances, I wouldn’t give them the time of day or would push them to do VIP and in the end I made $0 from them because I was too aggressive.
I do believe that when you come off as detached and unbothered, you give off a magnetic energy .You go into interactions with customers more smoothly, and you end up making money easily. It’s been such a breath of fresh air to focus on manifestation and see the changes right before my eyes. I’m always telling myself now that I don’t chase I attract.
I think hustle hard is relative. You can hustle hard by making the most of every shift you work . By being strategic and approaching the customers that are interested in you first. Not being on your phone so much that you lose sight of new customers that walk in the door . By having weekly/monthly goals and sticking to them. That’s really how you can keep track of your progress.