As the title says, I went to my first club tonight. There are going to be questions spread throughout this post so any comments that are actual advice would be appreciated. The only thing I ask is that if you respond with advice that you show respect to the women in this industry and not be rude/crass or talk about them in a deeming or an asshole-ish way. I’m here looking to treat the girls with respect and for all of us to have a good time. This post is also a bit long in length, apologies for that.

So I got there around 7:30ish. I was pretty nervous with it being my first time and on top of that, I went by myself. I didn’t ask any of my friends since I don’t think they are really into this. When I got there, there was a $10 entry fee. I imagine entry fees are somewhat common?

The place I went to seemed pretty slow, although it was a Thursday afternoon so maybe it can be a bit busier on other days. Anyways, I sat down at the bar and got a beer. Since I was nervous, I kinda downed it pretty quickly. While I was sitting at the bar, there was a pretty sexy girl that got up on stage and started to dance. This club seemed to be only topless on the main floor. Not sure if there are clubs that do full nudity? While she was dancing, I was very hesitant to stare. Don’t get me wrong, I was definitely looking but I didn’t want to come across as staring too hard. Is that something I should be worried about? I also only tipped $3 as she wasn’t up there very long and it wasn’t a stage that you are sitting directly next to. Was this tip enough or should it have been more?

Moving on, after she got off the stage, another girl came up to me and we started talking. I explained that it was my first time and she offered me a topless lap dance. She was very sexy and I did enjoy it quite a bit. Continuing on with the recap, I asked if I was allowed to touch her at all and she let me know that during the private room shows, that’s where I would be allowed to touch her. Is that something that is common? Having to enter different rooms in the back for more physical touching on my part?

So after I paid for the lap dance, I paid for the 15 minute room and we walked to the back. Before that though, she mentioned tipping the host. Is this an actual thing that should be done? I can see both sides, I’m just curious if I should be doing that. She told me that if a customer doesn’t tip the host well, he will come into the shows and forbid any touching.

While in the back room, during the private show, she mentioned that she would take my penis and “pinch it off” if we were in the “presidential suite”. I imagine that was her way of telling me she did other activities? She was also grabbing onto my cock, over my clothes, during the private show. She also mentioned that not all girls do this and this was something that she offered. Does this happen frequently and is this something that can actually be done? The suite itself costs about $580 if I remember correctly for a 30 minute shows alone, so with the price it does seems like some girls may offer this sort of thing.

And the last thing was that I asked her if she ever did full nudity and she mentioned is that if I were to get the suite dance with her, she would be comfortable with “flashing” me since I bought the highest service. Does that mean that she would take her panties off and show me everything during our time together? I would imagine that since she told me she does that then there shouldn’t be an issue? I’m kinda taking all of this at face value for what she was implying.

I’m just curious to what all this means and if these are things that girls actually offer. I enjoyed my time at the club and I want learn more about this culture and would love to hear from people who have experience with strip clubs. I tried to adhere to the rules of the sub as much as possible. Thanks to anyone who made it this far.