I'm looking for opinions on a situation that happened recently, and what might have caused a change in behavior for a girl (or the club) that I visit regularly.

Quick background: I visit a local club maybe once a month, sometimes more, depending on what free time I can swing. There is one girl in particular that I hit it off with and she's my total ideal fantasy girl, and the one I almost exclusively see at that club. AltGirl, redhead, lots of colorful tattoos, small, petite and super sweet. I usually go right to the club and immediately go for a VIP room 3-dance set, and tip 50% of the cost of the set. I do pay the house entrance fee too. Sometimes I'll also go into the main room and watch the other girls (who all know me by name), tip them decently, and so on. I've seen this one dancer maybe 20 times.

About me: I'm an older, white, dad-bod kinda guy, professional, decent shape, married, polite, sweetheart and very respectful and caring. I always shower prior to visiting, brush my teeth, dress decent, etc. In my visits with this girl, she usually goes topless for me, is very open and friendly, dances right up on me, allows me free hands, but I'm still very gentle and not at all pushy or grabby. We have always had a good relationship, have a nice time, chat about non-work stuff, and I treat her well. I've never asked her for extras, nor has she offered.

In my most recent visit, however, something changed. I entered the club, signed up for a VIP (she was right there welcoming me in), and we went into the room. Things seemed like normal; she was dancing right up on me and was friendly. I reached up to gently pull her top down and she started pulling it back up. She danced away a couple times, then came back in, and once I again, I kind of let my hands roam across her chest, and she was deflecting me. Wouldn't go topless at all. At that point, I just stopped trying (as I said, I'm not grabby) and I just sat there and enjoyed the dances she was giving me. I think she saw something was bothering me though, so during the middle dance, she cuddled up really close and whispered that the cameras were watching. Throughout the rest of the set, it was a clothed dance, and honestly, left me feeling pretty disappointed and confused. I still tipped her 50% as usual. On the way out, she was friendly as always, wished me goodbye, quick kiss on the cheek, and so on.

She had previously given me her number, and told me I could text her if I wanted to know where she was dancing, but otherwise wouldn't reach out to me first, which was fine; she knows I'm married. I had texted her twice on prior occasions to see if she was working at my favorite club, and she always responded promptly and nicely, so, that night, I figured I'd text her later and ask what happened.

On the way home, I was trying to play everything back in my mind and figure out what was going on. I texted her and basically said that I hoped she was not upset with me, or that I did anything to offend her, but that it felt different that night. She never replied back. I sent one more text the next day and just said to let me know if I should not come in to see her again. No reply. I have not tried to contact her again since.

Now, for the details on the cameras. Each VIP room has a camera, as do the hallways. The cameras are old, and they are viewed in the front office area. The club is small and privately owned, very chill, and usually the manager is the only one in there (and she was alone that night too). The cameras have never been an issue before, and there was no indication that anything was different, or being monitored, or recorded, or whatever. So I'm still trying to figure out if that was just an excuse, or if the girls were told something would be changing and not to be so free in the VIP rooms, or ???

And that's really the crux of my question. Does anyone have an opinion on what might have gone down? Is it normal for there to suddenly be more scrutiny in VIP rooms, or does management sometimes just change direction completely and start cracking down? Or...do you think there was something up with her? Like maybe she didn't want to treat me the same way any longer, or something bothered her about me, or she felt uncomfortable for some reason? I can't think of anything that would even remotely fit that definition, but I suppose it's possible.

Any opinions or ideas? I have not gone back to see her since, as I want to respect her decision not to reply back to me (which I take as a hint not to contact her). I'd love to hear any theories or ideas. Thanks!