A few weeks ago I went to a strip club that I really enjoyed and feel like I could become a regular at and want to return. However, I feel like I bombed my first impression. While I did "hit it off" with one of the girls, she talked me into my first VIP dance and debating texting her the day I go back asking if she's working that night, I'm worried I pissed off a few others I liked as well...

One of the girls comes over we talked for like 15 minutes, nerding out, and she asked if I wanted a dance. I said "not right now" because I genuienly had just sat down and wasn't mentally there yet? A few moments later, VIP girl comes and we do our our thing. After VIP, I go sit down and Spooky Girl comes by and asks if I want a dance. I tell I literally just sat down from a VIP dance, and we talk about horror movies. Nerdy girl goes on stage and I want watch and tip her so I say not right now, she leaves I go watch NG's dance, and as it is over, VIP introduces me to her friend and her and I spend my last half hour together.

I might be overthinking it, but like I don't want to be a regular if I'm not liked. Is it possible to be multiple strippers/club regular and not there to only see one performer? If it is, what's a better way to say "later" to a private dance?