28M, bi here. I’ve been exploring my sexuality for the past 3 years now. Some good experiences, some not so good.

I have OCD and tend to overthink about a lot of annoying shit. But… I’m so thankful that my OCD doesn’t allow me to blindly engage in sketchy sexual activities.

The amount of people I see on Sniffies and Grindr who have no care in the world really blows my mind. So many people have HIV and other STDs and it seems like no one actually cares.

Trying to find a regular trusted person to have fun with is so damn hard. I just want someone who is safe and thinks like I do. It has severely lessened my chances of having encounters. But, I’m completely ok with that. I’ll continue to think with my brain and not with my dick.

Please never feel pressured. Don’t allow yourself to be in a sketchy or uncomfortable situation.

If you read this… Stay safe out there. Whether that be physically, mentally, or emotionally safe… Just stay safe! 🙏