So I identify as straight, because I really don't find men attractive. Dicks? Sure. But masculine features not at all. Unless someone is extremely femme-presenting I'm not into kissing or cuddling, nor for I find them hot or cute.

But I love banging "straight" or bicurious dudes. Doesn't matter if they are buff or skinny or whatever, just matters that they are out of their comfort zone. I like the idea that there are otherwise straight dudes walking around out there who secretly know that I made them a cockslut for one night. I think it's just a dom thing- even when sleeping with women I'm considered a bull and love bangingtaken women. The dream would be to bang both a dude and his wife.

I live in an artsy fantasy college town, and honestly grindr is FULL of guys or couples out there experimenting and curious. People faking being virgins is a thing, but mostly you just have to deal with dudes ghosting once they jerk off. Still, despite generally preferring women more I probably sleep with guys like twice as often these days lol.