The girl I had been dating several years(6) and my best friend have been making porn vidoes for years.They started a year after her and I started dating. This friend and his current girlfriend lived with us from may of 2021 until last july. My Ex GF didnt work, my friend was off by 2pm daily, both his GF and i worked varied schedules that werent every consistent. He and my EX had plenty of free time together. I dont believe that it ever crossed my mind that the two of them would ever be involed with one another in that way. My ex was a real menace, i should have left years ago way before any of this. She cheated, lied, was lazy, unsuportive, etc... im not here to just bash her, as at some point i clearly thought much more of her. I do love this girl, and i wish i didnt. When I love I dont know how to let go even if it is desroying me. I found out about the videos when a video was emailed to me by someone I dont know. It didnt have any context attached, and no reason as to whyit was sent or anything. I was so confused as to why someone would be sending me porn lol.I started to notice some things in the video that made me wonder. For instance, I obviosly recognize her body as she has some very distimct birthmarks and tattoos on both her arm and thigh. The tattoo on her thigh is a image of my daughter. The tattoo on her thigh is very dificulkt to hide. I went to the website where the video came from(motherless.com) and began to watch videos from the username attached to the video. This took me down a rabit hole i never expected. What I found I still cant comprehend. I've found so so many videos of what I believe to be the two of them, her and her step father, and her own DAD. Why am i convinced of this? The videos are filtered with snapchat filters, or edited in some other software to change their apperances, This i know for a fact as on the backend under developer options i can see that someone has gone to great lengths to cover the identities of the entertainers. However,there are often major glitches where you can see the tattoos underneath, hair color and style, changes in weight, and piercings, or a whole slew of other things. The biggest red flag was the environment, I can clearly see whoever is in these videos is in my bedroom, my daughters bedroom, my friends parents house, her fathers house, and her mothers house. The positioning of the furniture, the items, the way her body looks as time has passed( she was curvy before drugs and is now just over 100 pounds),the tattoos, and the fact that i recognize their voices on several. My friend completley denied this when I told him what id seen, yet called me repeatedlyt for days wanting to get together so he could see the videos. I told him over the phone that i planned to remove the filters from the videos in addition to tracking the IP address, this is the pooint at which his whold energy changed. He claimed that if it was his face it was a deep fake. What killed me was watching her in a video with 3 or 4 diffrent guys, no condoms, in what looks like our bedroom with a towel over the sheet, while wearing the promise ring I gave her.Someone in the video twist the ring to the underside of the finger to hide the bright orange stone i imagine.. The ring is a 1/1. I havent spoken to her about any of this personally but she does know that i suspect them.She is now a homeless drug addicted prostitue.shes completely sold out to crack. We both struggled with substance abuse. We were on prescription pills for several years. I have always been a functional addict as in maitaing employment, not lapsing on responsibilities, etc.. she was semi functional until she begn doing cocaine. She started going to karaokee 4-5 days per week and developed a powder problem on top of the pills. Once the coke dried up she tried crack and the rest is history. He life spiralled completly out of controll in all of about 2 months. We broke up, she lost everything, including her family, and their support. I have seen her and slept with her since we broke up.... yes stupid.. I know. If the videos arent them I cant understand why ANYONE would pretend to be either of them(deepfake). There are far too many coincidence. In addition to the fact that the girl is extremly promiscuous and hyper sexual due to trauma and mental health issues, BPD, ADHD,and PTSD. I just want to know without the shadow of a doubt, I dont want to feel crazy. I should also mention that my friend has a GF of 3 years, just a year ago the 4 of us lived together. They never wore protection as far as i know, as my ex is alergic to latex and would literally rather have an STD than wear a condom. I havent been with anyone else sexually except her. I contracted ghonorhia and scabies, which i Just found out. His GF has no idea about any of this. I dont really care about his GF tbh, or either of them, but i do feel bad that hes doing to her what he did to me. This shit kills, its devastating. I feel sick, betrayed, angry, not good enough, and everything in between. I cant understand how a woman that i loved, valued, respected, cherished, spoiled, and would do anything for to make sure she felt loved. It wasnt enough.. I gve everything I had and some I didnt. How was I so stupid enough not to know, how could my "bestfriend" lay down with my girl behind my back. Rant over...