A little over 3 years ago my Step daughter(13f) stopped seeing her mom because her mom was supplying her with alcohol and she wanted to commit suicide.. and we found out and I took her in to the mental hospital and she stayed for 7days went threw cps the whole 9. And she decided that she didn't want to see her. Well during that time we have bonded and she calls me mom and all is good. Well in more recent event she got into huge trouble we had to take away phone table and games she was put on kids mode. On her tablet and phone so yeah... and she tried to run away and attempt to kill her self. Well her dad spoke to her and got after her for trying to run away. Well fast forward a month later she decided that she want to see her mom again, and she stop calling me mom and starting say well my mom this my mom that. And I guess it hurts, alot and I feel like an ass, because I don't want her to go... so yeah. And she even decided that she wants to go over for the summer. Mom only gets 2 weeks. In July. But yeah... I am proud that she feels comfortable to go with her and have that relationship with her. Throught out this whole ordeal her older sister sill went with her mom and still goes. I just feel sad that I am losing her and I am no longer the person she calls mom anymore it really hurts. 😔