So for context bio parent is a trans female so that is why the biological father has she her pronouns. Also she want to be called mom so I don’t want to hear anyone saying I’m taking her place or anything

So HCBP was complaining to my partner that HCBP wasn’t getting her enough money for helping with the kids. This woman sees her kids maybe 15 days out of the year, maybe. She gets disability and has the kids on her disability so they get money too. My partner has access to that money and we use it on the kids because they are with us 99.9% of the time. Then HCBP says she wants to claim at least one of the kids on her taxes so she can get the return. My partner explains that’s not how it works. The money is for supporting the kids not just profit. My partner then mentioned that I should be allowed to claim them if anything which sendsHCBP off about how she doesn’t want me called dad. My partner asked why and HCBP says a dad is someone that uses there last five bucks to buy the kids candy just to make them happy…

I have literally done that. I have regularly gone to the store just to get the kids a treat just to make them happy. Meanwhile HCBP has taken money from her daughter to buy cigarettes and monsters and has not paid her back. Whenever she does take the kids it is never for as long as she says she will and her reason for having to give the kids back most of the time is that she doesn’t have food. Bitch you asked for the kids on this specific date and you didn’t get food for your kids and then also won’t go get food when they are there. She just doesn’t actually care about her kids just what she can get for them.

Well bitch they call me dad and I reveal in it. It is very heartwarming of course and I appreciate that the kids trust me that much but also fuck you HCBP.

Anyway just wanted to rant.