Just to create a picture of BM: low IQ, in her 30's working at taco bell, lives with her BF and 2 kids in a 5th wheel in a crappy trailer park.

We only see SD(6) twice a month for one night, and eeeeevvvvveeerrryyyyyy time, BM tries to make excuses for why she cannot come to our house. She is sick, she is sad, sorry we are out of town, she has lice. We went almost two months without seeing SD.

My DH and I are sick of it! So right on que, her weekend was coming up and BM said she couldn't come, because she wasn't feeling well. She told us this on a Monday...we don't get her until Friday. So we told BM, "We have lots of experience with sick kids. She can come over and we will take care of her." Magically she is no longer sick, but then she has lice (ick). Well, we KNOW she has lice, we told BM that she does. So what do we do? We say, "that's okay, we have lots of experience with lice". We call her damn bluff and we take turns picking nits out of this poor girls hair.

We won't put up with the bullshit anymore!!!!