So my step daughter was in appropriate with two of my bio kids , I almost lost them , we are still dealing with the issues and getting her help, I don't have a very softness when it comes to her and letting things slide. She's 15, I drive her to her program once a week . We'll tonight while checking out the tablets since she is supposed to be monitored I found out she's talking to people from Florida, to me this is not appropriate since she doesn't know them and we are in canada . So I'm questioning her about it , we talked about the rules that she can talk to peers no one from out side the school or her social group ... my wife just sits there , so I said where you can't follow the rules no switch tonight yepp didn't happen. Then my step daughter adds well you don't go to my school 😒... my not finding any of this amusing. So by this point I'm fight or flight look at my wife and I'm like cells phones are off the table I'm not heading down this same road . She adds says you . We gave her one at 12 cost us 300 every other month for a bill , she just wouldn't follow her guidelines. My 10 year old has one she paid her bill for the first 3 months then I took it over , she then asked us to cancel it because she coukd do everything on wifi, . Sorry I'm all over the place . Back to the 15 year old I told my wife if she got the cell I was out and I'm taking the 3 younger kids with me. Is it wrong to threaten that?