I’m a 23yo and my girl is as well with a kid that just turned 3. Now we’ve known eachother since highschool, i got married we didn’t talk, i got divorced about a year ago and now we’ve been talking for a few months. Her babydaddy is self-centered and only really cares about himself. Now their relationship was NOT the best relationship. Now as coming into my new role, i adore the kid, and the girl and i get along great. She has to work at babydaddys house because i have no room at my parents (currently looking for an apartment and she’s currently working from home) and when he’s there there’s just no communication between us there’s no texts except for like at spontaneous times and the amount they talk is way more than I’m comfortable with, but I don’t wanna voice my opinion or feelings and get told i have no right to feel that way. Can someone just give me advice. Also before anyone says co-parenting. I get it but the chatter seems a bit excessive for two people with a suoer toxic relationship