Greetings, Sorry in advance for any oversharing, 29F here recently lost my first Bull of three years as he graduated from the Naval Acadamy last Spring and is now stationed abroad. Recently got the nerve to see if there were any Bulls online in my DMV area, to be amazed with over 200 replies, a bit overwhelming to say the least however, 90% meet my requirements and carry good social skills. My hubby hand picked my previous Bull, while repairing a Barracks on the Naval campus where Jake took residence, the two chatted often and soon Jake was invited to our home where the two bonded and hungout a couple nights a week and some weekends, Jake was uprooted from Iowa and didn't have many companions on campus, so he enjoyed my hubbys mancave and so on. One evening after a few drinks, my hubby asked me infront of Jake, if I wanted to be Jakes girl friend, I glanced at Jake who had a nervous grin on his face expecting rejection. I got up from my chair and said "I'll think about it" I ran to freshen up and changed into a blue negligee and black hold up thigh high stockings and came back into the living room and told them "I've been interested for awhile" I told hubby to go wash the dishes and I esorted Jake to the bedroom. Over the next 33 months Jake was a best pal to my hubby and a best lover to me. Would love to find that dynamic again. How do you guys vet your Bulls?