Greetings, Hello my name is Jessica 29 from MD, married to a wonderful hubby whos 32, yet suffers from ED as a result of a covid shot we suspect. During the fall of 2021, my hubby Mark was working in the barracks of the Naval Acadamy and befriended a cadet named Jake, who was a farm boy from Iowa and only had a few friends on campus. Mark started bringing him over and hanging out, Jake was polite and very handsome, after a week Mark started asking me what I thought about him, in a playful sense. I told him that I thought he was cute or whatever and brushed it off but, then it started to take notice of how Jake would approach me when we would chat. One evening after us having a few cocktails, Mark broke the ice and said "you to should fuck" I was a bit shocked and then I saw a glow of lust in Jakes eyes. I immediately said "okay" and escorted Jake into the bedroom and we fucked for about 90 minutes, while Mark listened through the walls. That was the stsrt of our three year fling of Jake being my lover and Jake being Marks best friend. Sadly this past spring Jake graduated and is now exploring the world overseas. Over the past few months we tried to recapture the magic with another, but the dynamics with my hubby weren't there, so I written those both off as rebounds. Recently, I signed on to Reddit to find a local Bull and have been overwhelmed by the responces, I wouldn't label myself to be a whore, however with the level of matches I've been offered for both a lover to me and a friend to him, I don't know how to get through the vetting process with this level of selection. We wanted to do meet ups for coffee a couple times with each, but we would be drinking a lot of coffee.lol As i've now only been with 8 partners, i'm trying to keep it tight for number 9. My hubby is my #2, my first I met while being a ruby tuesday waitress, he was a bartender and I didn't realize until a few weeks later he was also a huge playa, that put my in a low place until months later meeting Mark and a few years later we were married, a year into the marriage, I went to a costume party with friends and got tipsy and seprated from them and got seduced by another playa into cheating in the back of this guys van. My friends found me stepping out of the van in the parking lot, so I told Mark everything that happened that night while jerking him off, he grew more aroused knowing another man wanted me, so thats what started getting us into the lifestyle. Any advise will be well recieved, ty💋