Reaching a point on my journey that's calling for me to go sober. No real pressing reason why, it feels like the right choice at the right time.

I'm also thinking about how to simplify the way I date because I just don't want to play stupid mind games common on the scene these days.

It may sound silly, but these decisions worry me because I'm afraid I'll become too boring and strict to attract the things I want down the line: marriage and children but also a deep soul connection.

As I said in a past post, I'm not super obsessed with getting married to the point where I'll settle down with just anyone. But these decisions still rack my nerves a bit.

When you reached points where it was time to make changes for your spiritual growth, how did you commit to it? Did you tell yourself things, read books? Help!