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Although Iāve posted in different subs before, it didnāt result in anything and the conversations I had felt wholesome. I feel like I had good experiences in other subs, so I figured it would be worth giving another post a shot to see who else might be out there; it doesnāt hurt to see what else is out there.
Iāve been pretty fortunate to be gainfully employed and independent. While I have a professional, well-paying job and have traveled frequently and experienced much throughout my 20s, thereās just something āmoreā Iām missing in life that I canāt quite place a finger on, and that something is a child to either call my own or be able to help someone else take that next step of parenthood.
Thereās something special with talking to someone who wants to have children with you that makes you feel at ease. It feels like youāre creating something together, and I feel like itās as close as you can get to another human being on a spiritual level. Itās something thatās hard to experience with just a regular hookup; thereās a deeper sense of purpose involved. Iāve posted before and actually had someone I met up with, and if it wasnāt for some outlying circumstances, maybe it might have worked out. Planning for children is anxiety provoking, yet fun and optimistic at the same time. Iām optimistic that things will work out this time around.
I think the āreadyā part of it is the most important aspect of it, for it takes a lot to raise a child in a loving environment. Now that itās viable for me, I figured it would be worth a shot to post again and see if thereās anyone else out there that might be interested, whether that be coparenting, donating or something else entirely. Itās unconventional for sure, but maybe if someoneās also looking on this thread, maybe theyāre looking for something unconventional too. I also want someone whoāll be respectful of my culture and someone I can mesh with well. I honestly donāt have a type for the most part in terms of race or body type; just someone whoās responsible, empathetic and looking for the same.
I can also be as discrete as possible in a donor situation and I donāt mind traveling for the right person. To me, itās really about the individual or the couple who wants to start a family together and I donāt mind being someone to help if it brings other people the joy of starting a family together. Definitely message me if youāre looking for the same.
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