This is a haven for people that enjoy exploring the dynamic of a soft, gentle male dominant. Too often, ESPECIALLY in porn, we see rough and aggressive men jackhammering a skinny little “teen” and that’s supposed to define a dom/sub relationship. Or 50 shades of grey. Or some other watt pad erotica. Sure, you can have it rough. Be completely submissive to a sexy guy’s fantasies. But this isn’t the place to gush over that.

A man that is soft and dominant may sound like an oxymoron to some, but we know it’s not just a fantasy. In my experience, when my male partner is able to be gentle and communicative I understand his desire so much more. As a submissive, I choose to give up that control. And how comforting it is to know that I will be taken care of by a firm, caring, empathetic hand.

Personally, I’ve been treated roughly by some pretty toxic and abusive people in the past. And this dynamic is so healing to me. Interacting with masculinity in this way is comforting, pleasurable, and safe.

Please, comment below and tell me what it means to you either as a soft dom or the submissive of one. What are the characteristics of this dynamic, what do you love about it?