How to deal with a person who never lets you pay when you go out with them?

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I have older cousin. Whenever I go out with her, or her friends, she always insists on paying for things, and never lets me pay.

For example, Last night I went to hang out with her and her boyfriend. We went to a bar, and I bought the first round. They got the second round. After a bit, we decided to get some food. She kept aggressively offering and fighting to pay. I declined, and told her that I'd like to pay for myself.

I get very awkward and uncomfortable when people do this. How can I avoid these situations?

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