Basically I have zero clue what I could do that involves others people that isn't better solo than with Randoms. And I know that most people are avoidant of getting to know others through more dircet interactions. And since I don't want to go out of my way to seek people and be annoyed because nobody wants to do anything until it's already mostly over, and I don't want to reward laziness by sharing my work I did for myself with others (as I rather not start the social encounter with a sense of bitterness, especially since it's my work and I will just be wary of another person who likes to use others to have fun without contributing)...

I guess I just wonder what social activities there are that are personal in nature, and don't require me to go out of my way to set somone up for it. As I want either somthing mutual or natural, or I will just stay to myself, as there are virtually no social opportunities anymore and nobody seems interested in doing anything for themselves or with others anymore.