So I have trying to work on being more outgoing and at this one particular bar I tried specifically not hit on anyone there and had two women hit on me. There were a few nights I went there and my social anxiety got the best of me (so I was socially awkward), and I had some irritation in my eye once (due to sinus issues), but outside those two things I could not think of anything wrog that I did besides being awkward. The last time I went in I was told I was banned. I plan on talking to the manager, but it floors me as I have done things at bars before that could be bannable, but here I was doing nothing wrong and got banned and is the first time I did. All I did was play pool and drink.

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I tried to think about this seriously and outside being a bit nervous from social anxiety or them thinking I did drugs, or someone making shit up, the only other rational thing is they simply did not like me. This seems most likely, unless I was looking a certain way and someone took that the wrong way.

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I was then thinking about this at other venues I went to and I actually met some cool people, did not feel that anxiety, and had a girl hit on me and a guy at a restaurant I went to did a nice small gesture but I am not sure of that was interest or being nice (I am straight and have had gay guys hit on me so that is why I left it up to interpretation). I also met a few new people at the old bar and plan to hang out. I also met some people from my work but that is just platonic. Upon reflecting it seems like the bar ban was a fluke and I should shake it off. What say you?