I find myself ending conversations with people because I feel like they aren’t interested in me. If you don’t ask me questions about myself I take it as you don’t really care for my likes/interests and i end up just being your listener we aren’t really conversing.

But maybe i need to be the one to talk about myself and share things about me i’m just nervous that i’ll come off as self centered/absorbed and i’m scared that i’ll talk too much.

or maybe i’m a narcissist who demands the attention but won’t ask for it idk man what am i doing wrong? what can i do to actually have conversations with people without feeling small but also without trying to be “BIG”