To make a long story short, My friend(F23) Katy and I (F21) were close to someone that wasn't that great of person. At the end of relationship she (F22) lets call her Susan exchanged A LOT of nasty comments towards me and my friend and that was my last straw and decided I can no longer participate in this friendship bc if I did, I wouldn't be respecting myself.

Katy decided that she stills wants to be friends with Susan and that's fine, I guess. Who am I to tell you can or can't be friends with someone? Katy really wants Susan and I to work things out but as of right now I feel like there is no possible way we could have some sort of friendship. She seems sad about what I said but it makes me kind of upset bc she treated both of us horribly and ever since you made up with her you've gotten in several arguments with her already.

I feel like a bad friend bc she's going back to this friendship like she hasn't been hurt by it several times and Im choosing to not say anything bc I know how bad she wants things to work but come on! its like she wants to get played and hurt for the umpteenth time. I also feel pissed bc why are you so hell bent on us being friends again? You know how I was treated and you know the horrible things she said to me and yet you still try to push this friendship on me for your sake of wanting "one big happy family"

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I just don't know what to do and I don't know if Im being a bad friend. I need help...

sorry the story was indeed not short