Allo, so I moved to Ireland about 2 years ago from England (yeah I know absolute scum BUT was not my choice I also hate most English people too if it’s worth anything) you can tell I get the English jokes a lot at work.

So i don’t really have any friends over here. Got one good friend I moved over here to get started with over here but both moved on to living with girlfriends. And he’s got a few friends but they’re just kinda mutual contacts to myself nothing really more it seems.

Good craic with people at work but working in IT most seem to keep work colleges work colleges and not much more. Wouldn’t actively be friends on social media or message outside work really.

Got pretty much zero interest in drinking so that rules out pubs bars etc to meet friends but even then I’m way too anxiety filled to spark up a conversation. I’d never be the sort to start any conversation I always take a good while to come out my shell and will happily be a background person for a long time until I build any confidence to say much else.

Not into any sports just not my thing. Into gaming but then I end up anxiety ridden there too keeping myself to myself in online environments. Recently started riding a motorbike as a lifelong dream and a way to potentially meet people but hey here comes the anxiety again meaning I wouldn’t pull up to other bikers to chat or anything would end up just by myself.

I’m 28 and lost contact with a lot of people even living in England and even more since moving. Loving everything about Ireland just struggle feeling a fair bit lonely at times even though I’ve the girlfriend I don’t have much else friend wise. Wanting to reach out but the anxiety fence is being a big hurdle, idk I seem pretty fecked.

No idea what I want to achieve from this post but thought I’d share maybe inspire something i really don’t know but yeah Hey 😂