I left my job two months ago for another one. At my old job, I worked with a woman directly everyday although she wasn’t technically my boss. She maintained strict boundaries and only shared the bare minimum about her life with me. I shared a bit more with her than that. When I was leaving she asked, “Can we still be friends?”. I said sure because I did want to be her friend.

Fast forward two months. She and I met on Zoom a few times and exchanged friendly emails during that time. She opened up slightly more than she ever had.

About two weeks ago, in one of our email exchanges, I overshared with her in response to the questions she was asking me. I told her generally that my husband and I were fighting. I didn’t share any specific details about how often, what was said, etc. She never replied back.

Has she ghosted me? Is she too busy to reply? Did I push her away?

What do you think? And, how could I apologize so she’s not weirded out any further?