So I recently cut ties with this guy I used to work with, but I felt guilty about how I left things with that person, so I opened up the chat again to apologize. Then he encouraged me to come out of my comfort zone. I agreed to meet up with him at a library and then at a Starbucks. It was okay. Then on another day he picked me up so we can hang out at his apartment. I was obviously panicking internally. It was so dirty in there btw. We drank a little bit of wine. Then he went to his bedroom and took off his pants and came out wearing only a shirt and his boxer-briefs. I looked and at first I thought he changed into his shorts, then I looked a tad closer and realized they were his boxers. I immediately covered my eyes with my hand and asked him to put on some pants. Then after he did, he had put them on backwards. I had to tell him to put on his pants the right way. Like what is wrong with this guy?! Who does that?! I considered this person my acquaintance/almost friend, so this was extremely inappropriate behavior. Then at that point I wanted to go back home more than I did when I first got there. When he did that it made me think of him as some creep. In the chat he said that he asked his roommate about it and even his roommate said that he messed up by doing that, which is obvious! He keeps telling me in the chat that he did that because he was trying to be comfortable around me, to show me his "real self" or he said something of that nature. I do not buy it. It made me really uncomfortable. It made me feel like he had bad intentions.
He knows what he did. How can you not know how that would make someone feel if you were to come out and hangout in just your underwear?! After what he told me, he had intended to hang out just like that, in nothing but his underwear! Like WTF?! I really don't want to hang out with him anymore because he creeps me the f*** out! When I first met him he asked me if I wanted to move to New York with him. WTF! I know, I should have stayed away, and I tried but he kept following me and pursuing. First, he wanted to be my boyfriend, but I told him I am asexual. I was trying to come out of my comfort zone. I feel stupid trying to be his friend now. I have to find better people who share interests with me.

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I need advice. :((((((