Im almost 20 and am extremely shy. Im horrible in social situations and i never know what to say or do. Im sure im always making people uncomfortable due to my lack of social understamding without even realizing it. Due to this i keep to myself and never talk to anyone. This would be ok but its annoying when coming across people im attracted to. Girls that are really cute and seem nice in how they act and are lively and assertive. Is there any way to stop feeling attraction? I get why its there but it feels like a vestigal structure for me since ill never be able to act or in or for it ti have any use for me. All it does is make me feel sad by reminding me how shy i am. I dont mean to say i hate women but i wish i didnt have feelings toward them, its so annoying having an urge to talk to some of them or ask them out when im not able to.