I love how everyone believes our response to pain is somehow our fault. That we should just “get over it”, that we’re “wallowing in self pity”.

If a woman is traumatized by being humiliated she gets unending love and support. Us? No, we’re incels and instigators. We’re weak, they’re “tired of hearing about it” and everyone assumes we’ve been this way since the beginning. If a woman is hurt by a guy because he shamed her in some way, people she doesn’t even know rally around her and clap back. If she does it to a guy, she’s “strong”, “not settling” and “being a queen”, and he can’t talk to anyone.

And then people wonder why the suicide rate is so high for guys.