I’ve been married for 3 years. In a relationship with my wife for 14 years. Off and on for 12 of those years I have been cheating on her.

At first it was with one of my best friends. A fwb arraignment that lasted for 5 years until she finally got in a relationship she didn’t want to cheat on. The sexual chemistry was so intense she needed to go no contact with me to keep to her word.

Even when I had her though, I was flirting and hooking up on occasion with other girls too when I knew I couldn’t resist. Why would I deny myself the opportunity with someone who is hotter, more adventurous, or just knows how to push my buttons in all the right ways?

It also didn’t take me long into my marriage to finally stray, enjoying time with a woman in my own marital bed before I had even gotten away on my honeymoon. I had to have her over a few more times after too before that simmered out.

I haven’t strayed so far this year, but it is still early yet, and I have a few options simmering at the moment. It’s just a matter of which ones will boil over.

I’m looking forward to posting more, about what I’ve done and am doing, here.