Hello. I'm a 42-year-old man from Florida. I have trouble sleeping at nights, and I'm looking for a woman who would like to be a long term companion for sleep calls at night, preferably between the times of 11pm - 1am EST.

I'm dealing with a lot of instability in my life right now, and that's leading to staying up far too late at night and sleeping too late into the day. I understand how unhealthy that is, and so I'm looking for a woman to be a companion that I can fall asleep with on a regular basis, and hopefully provide me with some stability in my life, and therefore better wellness.

Sounds like I'm looking for a girlfriend, right? Well, not so. I've had to deal with too much hurt and heartache and been alone way too long to want or even need a romantic partner.

That being said, I still do enjoy companionship. I'm still a social creature who gets lonely, and craves companionship with others. I enjoy relaxing with and falling asleep with someone at night who makes me feel calm and safe enough to do so at the end of a long, noisy day.

But while I still search for those things, I don't think it's fair to wrap them up in the other things I can't provide, such as endless emotional support, viable financial support, promises of immaculate fidelity, sacrifices of all kinds, or wanting children. Most romantic relationships are sought with the promise that they will advance to things such as moving in together and marriage and kids and eternally loving one another until death do they part. Those are things I can't promise to, and promises I don't really expect others to live up to for me, and so I won't and I don't.

So I'm putting this up in case there's a woman who doesn't want all those romantic relationship things either but who stills wants the fewer, lesser things I'm looking for too: someone to talk to at night to unwind and fall asleep together, and then do it again the next night.

Some things about me: I'm a liberal. My MBTI personality is INTP. I'm an Aquarius. I'm irreligious. I've never been married and have no children.

I'm a creative person, primarily via writing. I graduated last year from film school, of which I'm very proud. I love movies of all kinds, especially horror movies, and can talk endlessly about them. I grew up reading Marvel comic books and watching DC cartoons, and would have studied comic books in college if they had a degree for it that could get me a job in the industry. I love old genre fiction, and the history of genres and entertainment. H.P. Lovecraft is the author who has influenced me the most. I'm an autodidact, so Im very curious about the world we live in, but what I know and my opinions on them have no certification at all. I like simulation and FMV video games. I also play tabletop roleplaying games.

I'm an introvert and naturally shy and quiet. Having lived for 4 decades, though, I have developed some level of social skills and learned how to take some social initiatives. But my social battery can still run out, and I expect that to be respected.

What am I looking for in a woman?

I'd appreciate an introverted woman as well, someone I can be comfortably quiet with at nights, but also able take enough initiative to reach out to me when she needs to. Someone with passionate interests she can talk to me about just so I can listen to her voice and enjoy it. A woman who understands and respects my limits for romantic interests and not expect to change them. A woman I can be affectionate with despite not being romantic with them. A woman who is a cuddler since I am too. A woman who is either stable herself or looking for someone to be stable with.

While I am open to all talking to any woman aged 18 or older, I would prefer those who are 28 or older. As I said, I'm looking for a long term companionship where we fall asleep together every night, and so looking for a woman more settled into a routine for calls.

I have no interest in women who are currently married or in a committed relationship.

I also want explain that I'm looking for primarily a platonic dynamic. I really am looking for someone nice to talk to at nights and fall asleep with.

But I'm also not so naive to think that sometimes people want more, especially at nights and when there's enough intimacy to fall asleep with someone. I'd be open for that if I feel right about it with you. But that's something I'd like to discuss personally. If you're looking for more than a platonic dynamic, let me know and we can talk about it. Otherwise, I'll assume you want a purely platonic ideal. Which I'm totally fine with.

So if this seems like something you'd be interested in, feel free to send me a chat or a DM and we can talk about any next steps we can after that.

Thank you for reading. I hope everyone has a wonderful day.