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Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel companions, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits/casual encounters, etc., this is the place on Reddit to find and seek. In addition to a tag, please include pertinent information such as your age and a condensed version of what you're looking for.

Close to San Francisco? Consider posting to /r/sfr4r.

Moderators

Updated Dec 20, 2024
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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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SJr4r Rules

As you can tell, the best way to get other redditors to look at your post is by utilizing the tagging system we have developed. Examples: [f4m], [m4f], [f4f], [m4m], [t4f], [t4m],[f4t], [m4t], [t4t], and [r4r]. If you are a couple or looking for a couple, please us a / to distinguish between ages.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male/Man

F - Female/Woman

T - Transgender

A - All

R - Redditor (platonic)

Example:

"25 [M4R] #Michigan - Have a ticket for the Foo Fighters this weekend. Who’s interested?"

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SJr4r Formatting Rules

As you can tell, the best way to get other redditors to look at your post is by utilizing the tagging system we have developed. Examples: [f4m], [m4f], [f4f], [m4m], [t4f], [t4m],[f4t], [m4t], [t4t], and [r4r]. If you are a couple or looking for a couple, please us a / to distinguish between ages.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male/Man

F - Female/Woman

T - Transgender

A - All

R - Redditor (platonic)

Example:

"25 [M4R] #Michigan - Have a ticket for the Foo Fighters this weekend. Who’s interested?"

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Age & Age Range

Please specify your age in your post.

Example:

25 [M4R] Michigan - Have a ticket for the Foo Fighters this weekend. Who’s interested?

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Catchall

Don't be a jerk. Don't start conflict. Don't bait arguments.

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Format posts correctly

Please specify your age, one suitable location, and what you seek. Please avoid being too sexually graphic in your titles. Things are best enjoyed in moderation.
The example given must be followed exactly.

Example:

"25 [M4R] #Michigan - Have a ticket for the Foo Fighters this weekend. Who’s interested?"

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NO SOLICITATION OF ANY KIND.

Absolutely no solicitation or sale threads of any kind allowed. We'll make an exception for situations where dinner, concert/venue tickets are involved and you're seeking another party to attend with you as the are incidental; aside from that, nothing else for sale (including yourself). Don't ask for it, don't request it, don't hint at it, don't imply it, don't put a cashapp or OF in your profile. Don't ask for 'donations', don't prefer 'generous' people. None of that.

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Solicitation

Absolutely no solicitation or sale threads of any kind allowed. We'll make an exception for situations where dinner, concert/venue tickets are involved and you're seeking another party to attend with you. These are incidental to the idea of meeting with people; aside from that, nothing else for sale (including yourself).

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Post Frequency

Please limit posts to 1 per 48-hour period. If removed by the automod, submit a message to modmail so that it can be investigated further.

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Do not include nude photos in initial post

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Mark all NSFW posts using NSFW tag!!

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No PII, do not post off-Reddit usernames/accounts

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Absolutely do not say "DM'd you" or any variation of this in the comments in response to a post.

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Local Users Only!

You are only allowed to post if you live in the County of Santa Clara. If you want to post that you live elsewhere like San Francisco and its nearby areas, then you must post in r/SF4r.

Do note that exceptions may be made at the discretion of the moderators.

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