Hi there! I’m in an open marriage and I’m a Dad.

I am looking for a woman who is also in an open relationship or at least has some experience with that. I’m open to whatever form the connection may take. I am not a swinger type, more of an intentional connection type and would prefer if the desire for long term is there. I’m poly in that I’m open to romantic feelings if they develop over time. What is important for me to find is good vibes in person and good sexual/sensual compatibility. Connected and intentional sexual experiences are the ultimate goal regardless of the layers that we may add on top of that. Let me tell you a bit about me!

I am white, 6’1”, 190lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have long blonde/brown/ashy hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Kind of a cute nerd crossed with a surfer. Also I’ve had a vasectomy.

Personally I grew up working class in the bay and now work in tech. I’m a lead engineer so I’m fairly nerd friendly but I’m also into football as well and enjoy camping and other outside activities. I also enjoy weed and alcohol in moderation and prefer if you are the same. Generally open as well to limited use of party/psychedelic type drugs and enjoy experimenting with the right person (combine this with dancing?).

In the bedroom I have a natural, passionate and sensual way. I enjoy being the masculine one in general but I am not formally kinky or a dom type. I have a strong carnal desire, I’m sensually very intuitive and I enjoy causing pleasure. Good stamina and control. Also, I’ve had a vasectomy.

I like sweet and sensual women who are down to earth. Maybe you are on the shorter side too??

I live in San Jose and I am quite mobile and happy to drive almost anywhere within reason. If you are only able to do things on the weekend we won’t be a great logistical match.

Thank you for reading this far and I hope to hear from you!