Every sub is different in what makes them tick. For me, I love high amounts of abuse mixed in with high amounts of praise, in a fatherly way. If you’re more cruel, I’ll need lots of kindness. Especially while cruelty. I prefer to be told and to be kept in subspace. I love to communicate non stop, as long as I’m not working. If I get a flood of messages, that can be difficult but I try really hard to talk to everyone. If you don’t hear back, we likely just aren’t compatible. No disrespect intended.

The goal: Finding someone who makes me a better version of myself through service. Someone that I feel lost without them and their direction. Someone who inspires me to be more submissive. Mostly that’s a strong connection and dominant hand.

Kinks: Coercion, Manipulation, Force, Discipline, Daily punishment, Micromanagement, Non-stop communication, Repetition (having to repeat the same thing over and over again), Brainwashing, Hypnotism, Aftercare and touch, Cuddling, Misogyny Cruel behavior, sweet voice (good girls take it, make me proud, ___ knows best.” , Degradation (clarify with me on what kinds), Humiliation (clarify with me on what kinds), Objectification (clarify with me what kinds), Dehumanization (third person, speech restrictions) Free use (as a masturbation tool preferred), Pet play (more serious aspects), Bondage/restraints, Gags, Impact play, Electro play (safely), Edging and denial, Or being kept horny and denied, Extreme micromanagement (within reason for certain events/busier time periods with advance warning), Being kept codependent, Patronizing/condescension (you can’t handle your own life, responsibilities, things, that’s why you need me), Plugs,

Limits decrease as I get to know a Dom as long as they prove they’re trustworthy. For all but one, I’ll tell you 1:1 what will change with trust. If a Dom won’t keep me safe, I will keep myself safe and the dynamic will end. It’s kind of the number one thing.

Limits: Inability to build trust, Body writing, Anything unsafe, Being laughed at/mocked, Lying (how do you build trust), Face pictures (will send pictures off of Reddit), Public (involving other people in kink without consent), Blood, Scat piss Toilet (can be discussed) Blackmail (this will never change, regardless of trust) Anything to risk its job [excluding if Owner thinks it’s best to quit).

If you’re too proud to admit when you’re wrong, or you handled something incorrectly, please don’t contact me. I’ve had it before. It’s dangerous.

If you think women should be “ruined”, please don’t contact me.

If you hate women or just want a traditional house wife you can order around, I’m probably not for you. I want love and kink.