Posting again -

Like many, my sex life at home is now nonexistent. Like all relationships, we started out having sex constantly - but ten years later I find myself begging for any contact/sex - only to be told I expect too much. Im lucky if I get to have penetrative sex three times a year. I’ve tried talking, suggesting therapy but ultimately my husband is letting me know he is done with our marriage having a sex life at the ripe age of 37.

If you are in a similar situation - please reach out. I’m very serious about finding a like minded, married top that wants to take control of their sex life but with safety and trust leading the way.

About Me: 37, gay/married masculine bottom (former military). If it were up to me - I’d get laid twice a day daily - so super high sex drive here. Very good looking - white/Latino mix - 5’11 215 tattoos, facial hair, super nice ass and 7.5”c - can host in Redwood City and travel.

Married tops hit me up - the following will automatically be a no from me: - asking me to wear underwear/girls stuff - nope and not my scene - Telling me you are “curious” or this is your first time - I’m only interested in men that know exactly what they want and are vocal about it - Traveling for work / if you have a rest stop and partners in multiple cities - not interested - looking for local/married guys with 1 partner only to keep all involved safe - Pushing to meet - if you are down to just straight up meet strangers without any vetting or communication - I ain’t for you - Refusal to show your face - Bro, we are all DL here - so stop acting like you are a movie star and can’t share your face - I’m down to share pics in safe apps if preferred but I won’t meet up with anyone without having an attraction and knowing what they look like

If you read through all that and feel like messaging - please do. I’ve been posting for around a year now and have chatted to many many flakes but I will continue to post until I link up with the right guy, as I am still wanting to take control of my sex life and allow myself to get what I want there - so that I can properly focus on all other aspects of life (home life, work, etc.) Stay safe everyone