What is most important for me to find is a short and sweet woman who is multi-orgasmic.

My strengths in the bedroom are my stamina, my control and my carnal desire. I have a natural, passionate and sensual way about me. I enjoy being the masculine one in general but I am not a dom type. I take pleasure from giving pleasure. So if you are the type to be able to experience great sensual pleasure then that creates a feedback loop for me where I get pleasure from yours. This feedback loop is a state of mind that I am trying to inhabit. I have an energy that resonates in this aligned state and I have a deep well of that energy. Looking for someone who relates to this and who also yearns for these moments in time.

I am in an open marriage. I don’t have interest in casual encounters. I want to know and respect you and prefer if the desire for long term is there. Communicating with transparency is important to me. I’m poly in that I’m open to romantic feelings if they develop, but the foundation of our connection has to include our great love for this sensual/sexual journey.

Physically I’m 6’1”, 190lbs. I workout and run regularly. I have neck length blonde/brown/ashy hair, I still have all of it and it’s wavy and thick. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses. I usually have a clean shaven face but I’m open to change my shaving habits for a partner. I’ve had a vasectomy.

I am a bay native who grew up working class and is now working in tech. I am a quietly confident person. I’m also stalwart and sweet and sensual and silly at times. I am analytical and precise but only with things I really want to be right, otherwise I’m pretty chill overall. I want people to feel comfortable to be themselves around me.

I enjoy drinking and smoking weed in moderation and I enjoy partners who feel similarly. I enjoy experimenting at times with other substances as well in limited and intentional situations. Would love to have someone to experiment with and maybe include some going out and dancing too?

I appreciate you reading this far and I hope to hear from you.