Hey Reddit, I wanted to share an intense and exciting journey I’ve been on lately. I connected with an older Dom top on Grindr who’s incredibly experienced, kinky, and knows exactly how to push my limits in all the right ways. From the moment we started talking, I knew we had a connection, and he’s been guiding me deeper into the kink scene ever since.

He’s spoiled me with so many gifts—cages, harnesses, dildos, cock rings, lubes, condoms—everything you can imagine to explore my submission. The way he takes care of me and gives me what I need for my kink is honestly overwhelming in the best way. His attention to detail and dominance have me hooked.

I’ve told him I want to fully embrace my sissy slave side, but he prefers that I be his obedient slave boy, which I’m more than happy to submit to. There are times when I can’t fully fulfill his requests because of my roommates, and that’s been a bit frustrating, but he’s been understanding.

A few weeks ago, he gifted me a lingerie set. He’s not into it himself, but it made me realize how much I want to embrace my sissy side even more. So, I went ahead and ordered some dresses from Shein to really lean into that side of me. It feels so freeing to wear them, and I can’t wait to explore more.

I’m still figuring out how to balance fulfilling his dominant needs with exploring my own kinky, sub-sissy desires. There’s something so thrilling about submitting to him, but also the excitement of stepping further into my own sub-sissy persona.

Has anyone else experienced something like this? How do you navigate being both a slave to a Dom while exploring your own sissy or sub side? Would love to hear how others have balanced these dynamics!