Id love to connect with someone who enjoys playing with remote toys and submissives.

I am amab gender questioning human who is loving being controlled by others and moulded into new and wonderful depths of submission.

I’d like to explore some of the scripts on Xtoys. I’m interested in forced mantras, holding positions, speech tasks, and people choosing what I watch (hypnosis, conditioning, confusion gets priority). To enable this i have a range of remote toys including Estim, fuck machine, vibes, and a Wi-Fi padlock/key safe!

Ideally I’d like to pull the femme aspects of me out a little more and push down on the masculine. This can be soft but I actually rather a firmer approach and style when playing with others.

My biggest kink is honestly making others happy. It I like to do it though some some suffering and cost to myself.

I like control. In all its forms. Mental. Physical. Spiritual. Ritual. This can take many forms and it’s fun to play with small details as much as grand statements. This is why I like xtoys and chastity Because both are enabling this control. I don’t need my life controlling. I have my self together ☺️. But I do enjoy controlling touches.

I love emotional play. Fear and uncertainty to be specific. Which is why I gravitate towards those on the harsher end of domination. This can take to form of pain, discomfort, threats, or inevitability. I also like to feel used and abused. Valueless but not worthless. Sort of like a beloved pair of trainers. This is where humiliation and degrading come in.

I am looking for someone rougher but sane. Cruel but loving. A “just a bit more” type. Someone who understands what they like and doesn’t mind taking it. I’m not looking for a gentle Domme nor a Mommy type. You’re lovely but it’s not what drives me wild.

Please connect with me if you want to and we can discuss details x. I have a few sane limits and some decent communication skills which will allow us to play safe.