Hello everyone,

I am a 40-year-old pansexual Dominant male in Chicago. I have been exploring BDSM and lifestyle for over 16 years and, while I am always learning and evolving as a Dom, I consider myself reasonably skilled and experienced in crafting intense and in-depth dynamics. I am currently looking to make connections in the kink community, whether that be as friends or something more. I would also like to eventually explore building a dynamic with a thoughtful, open, creative, and committed sissy submissive.

I have a particular love of the mental side of kink, so should you contact me, please be aware that will be a heavy focus of our discussion (meaning I will probably ask you a hundred questions about who you are as a submissive and what it means to you).

I have a large myriad of kinks I enjoy exploring and always like keeping myself open to new things and new experiences. That said, I particularly enjoy exploring bondage, impact play, CBT, obedience training, all things pertaining to the mental side of BDSM, body worship, rough use, degradation, pet play, feminizing subs, among others.

I would really love to get to know people, whether that's as a mentor that can help guide someone who may be newer to the lifestyle/sissy exploration, or something deeper and more intense should we connect in that way. Either way, if this post piques your curiosity, please feel free to say hello.