I've been into kink and I've been sexually dominant for as long as I can remember. After a series of (positive) life changes, I'm looking for a compatible submissive human being and building a decent, long-term connection.

I'm based in Manchester, UK, but I travel around quite a bit for work, so I'm pretty open to meeting up regardless of where you are. I'm open to online-friends if we're not really able to meet up due to distance/etc.

As a person, I'm a pretty normal person with an easy going and chilled out, open-minded attitude. I'm 110kg and 182cm/6ft2; so I'm a bigger bear-y type of guy (shirtless slightly nsfw selfie), reasonably well-endowed, and having lost a lot of weight recently, I'm in the gym three times a week, but it's not my whole personality. I'm into the usual hobbies, things like movies, TV shows, gaming, D&D, and all that jazz. I really love hearing about other peoples hobbies and interests, so please do talk at me about them!

As a dominant, I tend to be more affectionate and rewarding instead of just aggression. I'm open to a lot of different kinks and fetishes where I'm the dominant person, and I enjoy a lot of orgasm-control with a submissive too. I prefer to get to know a person and understand them mentally and emotionally over a period of time, instead of just looking to get myself off in the fastest way possible - so I'm not looking for a one-time or short-term thing. I own a pretty decent collection of toys and restraints, and I believe in SSC/RACK principles to make sure that interactions are positive and enjoyable for both of us.

In a potential submissive, I'm primarily interested in meeting somebody below the age of 40, who is politically on the left side of the spectrum. I'm attracted to slim/toned/average body types and you'll be confident in sending pictures/videos/voice messages etc. As I'm also looking to build more of a connection as well as the sexual aspects, you'll able able to hold a conversation instead of one-word answers.

If you'd like to talk more, drop me a message through Reddit chat and tell me about yourself, with a picture of so I have a rough idea of who I'm talking to. Honestly, if you send me a really low effort message, I'm probably not going to reply, but I'd love for you to tell me which parts of this personal drew your interest too.