Heya,

I've been an online Dom for about 9ish years now and I've kind of been involved with D/S relationships and play for a bit longer than that. I've mostly been on another forum that mostly dealt with truth/dares, and S/M, D/S dynamics. Things have kind of gone stale there so I decided to lurk around here for a bit and make a post. I'll just be upfront about this and say that my style of being a Dom involves finding out about each other's kinks and seeing how we can experience them with each other. I think that finding out about whatever kinks another person has is half the fun of it all, you often find out they're into something you've never heard about before. I could pretty much take the nurturing role, I like to get to know each other first, then we'll talk about how this call all work as a D/S relationship. Respect and establishing expectations go a long way.

I usually prefer to have subs that don’t have extremely specific set times in order to be in contact with since I like to have conversations in between play. I know that you also have your own things that you have going on in your own life and I won't get in the way of that. I'm interesting in mostly fem presenting folk, just a preference. If you feel that you need to end the relationship because of other obligations or if you find that this just isn’t for you, please let me know, it's no hard feelings! I do expect obedience from you and punishments will be given out accordingly. First, I would like to get to know you, so conversation would be a big part of our first meeting. Hit me up and tell me a little about yourself! I want a sub who is willing to explore beyond their comfort zone to try new things and kinks while also respecting your dislikes, if you have any. Reddit or Discord is fine being the primary method of communication. I don't think photos and videos are the most important, but it sure does create a better experience for both roles and could be considered down the road. Of course, I'll practice discretion as well.

If you're not really interested in that, then I'm open to talking with people new or old about their own experiences and curiosities as well about where you're at on your kinky journey. I'm open to everyone if you want to chat or if you're interested in a D/S relationship.

About myself I'm a 29 Asian Male, and people say that I have a really deep voice so if we ever get to have a voice call don't be startled haha. Mostly I've done a lot of roleplaying, DDLG, masturbation instruction, D/S play, switch play, feminization, crossdressing and a few other things here and there.

Please message with something other than just hey, and tell me about yourself. I hope that I'll get a response from you soon. There’s a lot to talk about!