I'm looking for a smooth and fit trans woman who wants to be the best she can be. You want to take your femininity to the extreme, you don't want to pass but be stunning, and you want to have a partner push and guide you throughout this journey. In addition to that, you want to find a partner to build a real relationship with. Something romantic, mutually exclusive, and long-term.

I've had serious relationships with trans women for the last 20 years, and those experiences have led me to have an extremely solid understanding of what I'm looking for with someone. I don't want to waste my time (or yours) with games and bullshit.

This is a long, serious, and genuine post - I would appreciate it if you read it all before messaging me.

Who I'm Looking For

You're vain, love to look good, do everything you can to look your best, and you're proud of the hard work you've already put in. You're obsessed with all things feminine and crave more; make-up, fashion, lingerie, glamour, style, and more. You've already invested time and energy into being a stunning woman and want to push that much further.

I'm not looking for someone who wants to be discreet, is worried about what people will think, or is scared of offending people. Fuck people.

If you have no experience with feminization, you are not someone I'm interested in. You don't have to pass yet, but you must have the physical potential to be truly stunning. You're a hard worker, self-motivated, and can set goals & achieve them.

You want a partner who will provide love, trust, safety, stability, support, and guidance as you become a stunning Doll.

Further to those things, here are some particulars I look for:

• In your 20's, 30's or early 40's.
• You're Single (no poly/open relationships).
• Hygienic & non-smoker.
• Hung and a bottom-leaning switch (and not into chastity).
• You have a very high sex drive (because I do).
• Non-op and love your genitals.
• You want plastic surgery (BA, BBL, FFS, etc.) and regular touch-ups.

Most importantly: you are serious, willing to commit the time, energy, and effort, and have a living situation and lifestyle where you can do that.

Your Location

I'm based out of San Francisco, but I travel constantly. I'm not concerned about where you are as we get to know each other. At the same time, I don't want something online only. I don't mind if you aren't local or even in the US as long as you're ok with meeting up when we're comfortable enough to do that. If you aren't local, we can figure out the details of regularly getting together as we progress. If you aren't local, I expect that you read, write, and speak excellent English.

Feminization

There is no one-size fits all approach to feminization, we'll work together to push you further based on your current progress, goals and desires, physical potential, and the realities of your circumstances. We'll start by discussing you and where you're at to help set a foundation for what comes next. This is not for the faint of heart; we'll dive deep into your mental state, goals, desires, and more.

I'm not interested in someone on the fence, unprepared or not in a place in their life where they can focus on this kind of work. I'll hold you accountable, push you, comfort you, and provide correction when you make mistakes or don't follow through.

About Me

I'm a 39-year-old dominant guy with over 15 years of experience in the D/s community. Over ten years have included feminizing and training individuals. I'm white, good-looking, and 6'3" tall. I'm in shape with a big/muscular/athletic build (shoulders for days, lol). Not hurting downstairs either: 8", uncut and thick.

I'm successful, well-educated, and intelligent. I love learning new things as much as teaching someone something new. I'm an engineer with a great career and a passion for building things. I can be nerdy; I like video games, photography, and sci-fi and have been playing a lot of Helldivers 2 lately. While I can be a nerd I still hit the gym, be social, and am an active philanthropist.

When it comes to kink, I'm a Dominant trainer. My interests include feminization, wardrobe control, tasteful bimbofication, exhibitionism, public sex, and light bondage.

Getting in Touch

That was a lot, I know - if you made it this far, I appreciate you taking the time to read it all. There are a couple of things to keep in mind when you reach out to me:

• I put effort into writing this post; please put some effort into messaging me.
• If you aren't willing to share face photos, don't bother messaging me.

Reality

I've posted this quite a few times now, I've met some incredible people and even made some new friends, but I haven't yet found the right one for what I'm looking for.

I'm aware that it's unlikely I'll find what I'm looking for amongst the fantasy chasers and time-wasters of Reddit, but you miss all of the shots you don't take, so here we are.