Hi, please don’t judge me. I do love my wife, i haven’t and don’t intend to physically betray her.

However, our sex life has become profoundly dead. In bed she is mostly submissive and lacks the motivation to take any sort of initiative, yet complains our sex life is unsatisfying.

I am naturally a switch, with over 15 years of Bdsm experience, having been on both sides of the D/s dynamic in different relationships, but currently very unmotivated since all the initiative has to be taken by me or sex won’t manifest itself in our lives.

I am 43, from southern Europe, almost fully tattooed dad bod, with an open mind, loads of kinks, a few limits and a profound need for intelligent interaction.

I do not really care if you are female or male or trans or cis or young or old or skinny or chubbier. I am and always have been attracted to all sorts of beings and expressions.

What i do need and search for is a high degree of intelligence and empathy.

I am looking for someone who can take a dominant role over me on an online dynamic. I am willing and able to serve the right person with dedication, and willing to follow your rules and orders, as long as it is done in a discreet and trustful manner.

Ideally you’d be interested in guiding me through daily routines that will highten my horniness, and instruct me when and how to unleash it on my wife, being able to finally make her sexually fulfilled.

I can’t be often online but i am willing to dedicate myself to communicate in long writting format once or twice a day, and with shorter messages during the day. I often travel for work for 2/3 weeks every couple of months and at that time i would be more available for a more constant daily interaction.

I do value the written word very much, so i also would expect you to enjoy writing in an dedicated erotic fashion rather than with short telegraphic messages.

Some of my kinks, not the only ones but certainly ones i’d like to explore in this dynamic, are edging, anal play, gentle humiliation, impact play, joi, nipple play, etc.

Hard limits would be scat, hard humiliation, visible body marks and any sort of permanent branding.

Everything else can be discussed and explored.

If by now you haven’t given up on this testament, and feel this might interest you, call me R and send me a message…

I’m waiting for your firm and strict hand to guide me.