Hello everyone! Just a heads up, this will be a long and detailed post.

TL;DR 31-year-old submissive male seeking a UK Domme to be "the one".

About Me

Physically
I’m 31, single, white, dark brown hair, average body (6ft, 178lb), wears glasses, bearded (open to shaving), vaccinated, never smoked, never done drugs, don’t drink at all, no tattoos. Happy to verify each other with photos early on.

Personality
I'm an INTP personality type with an introverted side that transforms into talkative enthusiasm once I'm comfortable with someone. I've been described as kind, caring, passionate, nerdy, curious, honest, and yes, even a bit kinky. I consider myself extremely logical and open-minded. I cherish meaningful connections, engaging conversations, and value 'quality time' and 'words of affirmation' as my love language. Although sexually submissive, I've been known to portray caretaker traits and believe that bringing the best out of each other works both ways. If you appreciate genuine companionship, we might just connect.

Interests
Passionate about PC gaming, cherishing laughter and shared moments with friends. I love exploring fantasy through gaming, TV/film, and books. Beyond that, I'm into music, F1, CGI, and AI. Hopefully we have some shared interests! :)

Daily Life
I've built a fulfilling and sucessful career, working Monday to Friday, mostly from home. While my job is very important to me, I value making time for that special someone and expect the same. In the evenings, you'll often find me on Discord, unwinding and connecting with friends, not forgetting that balancing adult responsibilities is crucial to daily life.

My Ideal Domme

I'm seeking a nurturing yet commanding figure with qualities of a Mommy or Gentle/Soft Domme. I value the blend of care, discipline, and exploration in a potential partner. I am looking for the same qualities I bring; passionate, communicative, loyal, honest, and emotionally available. Looking for a UK-based connection, starting with online interactions and eventually moving to in-person. Seeking a lifelong, monogamous partner who shares interests both in and out of the bedroom. No short-term interests; dealbreakers: smoking, drug use, STIs/STDs. I welcome connections from all women, biological or trans, prioritizing connection based on shared interests and mutual respect. Let's explore our potential, even if we don't align on every detail.

My Kinky Side

Now, onto the thrilling part... I've become a very eager explorer after discovering online play, after years lurking on the Internet. Being new to the kinky world, I'm completely enthralled by the idea of surrendering control. I'm on the lookout for a commanding dominant who can help guide me on a journey of self-discovery, transforming me into their ideal plaything.

You might catch me being a bit bratty at times, but it's often just a mask for my underlying excitement. A firm hand, however, has a way of bringing me into line. Despite my outwardly masculine demeanor, the thought of slipping into silky panties and being at the beck and call of both men and women sends shivers down my spine. And, let's not forget, I do have a few toys that are just begging to be part of the fun.

The constant tease of desire fuels my almost perpetual state of arousal, day and night. I pride myself on being open and honest about my exploration and experiences. Communication and care are non-negotiables, as I believe in creating a secure space for our connection to thrive. Mutual attention and regular conversations are key, understanding the significance of connection, consent, and respect before delving deeper into the unknown. Let's embark on this exploration together, and maybe we can introduce some of my favourite toys into the mix.

I have my own set of kinks, but I'm incredibly flexible and open-minded. If our lists don't align perfectly, it's not a dealbreaker. I thrive on exploring diverse desires and believe the most exciting connections come from discussing and embracing each other's passions. So, share your kinks—let's see where our desires intersect.

Kinks
JOI, CEI, orgasm control/edging, praise kink, teasing, sissification, forced bi, cock worship, trans

Hard Limits
Scat, watersports, vomit, breath play, blood, CBT, pain, fire play, permanent marks, social suicide, anything illegal

Next Steps

If you've made it this far, I'm intrigued! Message me with your ASL, a bit about yourself, what caught your eye in my profile, and what you're looking for. Let's talk and explore our potential together!