Let's start with this: using emojis is not inherently girly. Some view it as such, but not enough to say it's truly girly/fem. Which emojis you do use, though, can have a profound effect. HEARTS(❤💖💞💗 etc) they're girly. Especially the pink or sparkly ones. But using them everywhere, all the time, is over kill. They can be good for showing desire or compassion, or to suggest a more fem and flirty way of saying something. Now, if you're overwhelmed with girly desire and can't help but be cute/flirty, you'll probably have a heart in every message that you send. That works just fine. FEM LIPS(💋👄) similar to hearts, but less innocent or childish. More womanly than girly, you could say. FEM AVATAR(👩💁‍♀️🙋‍♀️🤷‍♀️ etc) I... don't have anything further to say about these. EMOTIONAL EMOJIS: the standard ones. These have to be used impulsively and intuitively, so I can't explain how to use these, but using cute emotions (😍😊🤭 etc) definitely makes you seem more fem. To figure out when and how to use them, you need to get more in touch with your emotions. Get into the habit of observing your own reactions, and you'll start to get better at using these emotional emoji's in a more girly manner. Any other thoughts? This is more if a tutorial for presenting a more fem presence while texting, and it may be an incomplete one at that. If you feel like using emojis in and of themselves is girly, go for it.