I just had a wonderful flirt session with a guy and was thinking about why its so satisfying to flirt with men as compared to women. Guys seem to provide more feedback whereas women mostly indicate their approval by smiling demurely.

Whereas guys can tend to be quiet, when the flirtations turn ever so slightly sexual they start to drive the conversation and I love that. Mostly it seems most topics aren't off limits and while being crossdresses probably has led them to be less inhibited (we are likely sexualized by interested men to a higher degree than GGs) it still comes off.

Guys are transparent. You always know where you stand. It's easy to leave a conversation with a guy on cloud nine. They know what to say to make you feel good if they are engaged in the conversation. Sometimes they aren't but I think most gurls have a good feeling from earlier interactions if a guy is willing to put the time in conversation.

Then there is the element of ceding control which happens to the same degree in conversation and flirting as actual sex. Our naturally submissive personalities come off in that way too and it's a way of letting go.

The downside is not all men enjoy flirting unless they know it will pay off in sex so not necessarily the easiest to find but it's one of the low-key best parts of being a sissy to me.

How do you flirt with guys? Any specific techniques that work well to let the guy open up to you? How do you like to calm his nerves?