In the past couple years, I have had the privilege of being orally serviced by a number of different sissies. I realized early on, through trial and errors, that the dom plays a large role in a successful and enjoyable hookup. After browsing online, I came across a number of guides for sissies, but I could not find anything for doms. From my experience, here are a couple tips and pointers that has enhanced my experience with my sissies. (I can do a part II focusing on sex)

ABOUT ME

As tops go, I’m a tall black daddy who recently discovered his love for submissive sissies. I have had my fair share, from the shy newly sissy, to the experienced slutty ones. I became interested in sissies for a number of reasons, but without going into too much details, the drama free servicing is really what I’m after. Having access to an eager cocksucker with only a couple of back and forth texts is hard to beat. Here are some advises for oral fun.

PREGAME

When I first started inviting sissies over to my place a few years back, I realized how stressful and awkward these kinds of meeting can be at first. What I came to understand was that as stressful as this experience was for me, it was 10x more frightening for her. I can’t imagine the feeling of meeting up with someone as a submissive. With that in mind here are a few pointers:

-When having a sissy over, always have clear boundaries and expectations for the meeting. If she only agreed to provide head, do not push her to do anything else. Be a gentleman when texting her, and never show desperation no matter how full your balls are.

-When she gets to your place, let her get comfortable at first. Some sissies will go straight for your cock, others can be a more timid / overwhelmed by the situation. If she has trouble initiating, try to get her comfortable by complementing and kissing her. If she is still overwhelmed, this can happen with newly sissies, simply be dominant and take the lead. I usually have them sit down, and proceed to place my large cock in front of their face. Being at eye level with a cock is a trigger for any sissy. She will be sucking in no time.

ACTION

The way you get serviced in entirety up to you. I like it this way:

-At first, I always allow my sissy to get accustomed to her new toy. I usually lay back and let her explore the taste, feeling and smell of my black cock. The goal here is to get her comfortable, compliment her, pet her head and tell her how good she feels. Getting her comfortable will truly enhance her submissiveness.

-Once she has you nice and hard, I usually become a lot more dominant. This is where you can ease into the name calling (cocksucker, bitch, faggot, slut, etc). Never use those when she walks in the door, there is a place and a time to degrade a cocksucker. I’m usually also grabbing her head by now, guiding her into a more rough/facefuck servicing.

-You should be moaning and verbal during the entire blowjob, but this is especially true when orgasming. Sissies love that have a man grunting and cursing when they explode. When cumming, I always try to have her swallow my load. If she is not into that, I let her finish me how she wants.

AFTER

-When she gets you to cum, always have her clean you up after. Why? Because she will. Whether its with her mouth or with tissues, its a big turn on having a sissy clean me up after I’m done. Not only is she doing all the job, she cleans her daddy after he is done with her. Hot.

-When the fun is done, always be on your best behaviour with your sissy. Offer her a ride home, pay for her uber, etc. When she does leave, a quick text telling her how much you enjoyed having her over is always good. No matter how good your cock is, she will only want to service you regularly if the overall experience was enjoyable for her.

These are some advices that allowed me to experience great hookups. If you make them comfortable, are patient and dominate at the right time, they will be begging for more.

I’m glad to hear any kind of feedback. Is my guide correct in your mind? What would be your perfect hookup ?