Having sex is obviously, pretty much the best thing in the world and everything in it feels awesome. However, everything that goes around sex is extremely important for me as well. It is not only the mechanics and the act, but the whole setup. For example, what are the actions that lead to sex, how the woman looks, how has she dressed up and what kind of parfume is she using? Now, what i have come to appreciate even more as I grow older is the psychological aspect of sex. I like positions where I feel powerful, for example when a woman kneels in front of me and pleases me with her mouth. Also, I get at least 50% of the pleasure in anal sex from the feeling of power. Now, on aspect that excites me in sissies is the ultimate feel of power. A guy transforms into a woman for my pleasure and lets me use her to fulfill my needs. Additionally, to me it seems that sissies are often also more playful and understand the psyche of men better than women and therefore have better ability to please men. So far, I have only been with cis-women irl, and men do not interest me at all but I have really started fantasizing about having a sissy girlfriend or wife. It would make me feel like a king every day :)