Heyyy girlies,

I’ve been reading a bit about these two things on here and other sissy spaces and I hateee how these things seem to be presented as a binary.

Personally I love femininity and presenting with some in my day-to-day life, and the sissy kink just makes me feel even prettier and like such a good girl. I feel confident and desired for being who I want to be.

But at the same time, there’s shame involved with not conforming to traditional gender roles, as well even more shame for being a kinky slut on top of it. 😅 Turning that shame and humiliation and making it arousing feels empowering in itself. Like I take society’s pressures and experience them on MY terms.

What’s been suuuper hard is finding a partner who can understand my feelings on these things. With most guys I feel like it was just a physical hookup. Even the ones who had a great personality really didn’t bring out the sissy in me. Even the couple of ladies i’ve been with felt the same way, with one exception which I’m sad ended in such a weird way.

I guess I’d love the thoughts of other sissies and dom(me)s on this. What roles do empowerment and humiliation play into your kink? What is the best way to find a partner who gets it and makes you feel vulnerable in such a special way? 😵‍💫