Me and my daddy who is way older than me “Over ten year age difference” have completely different lives and work on a different schedule type for our relationship. Specifically He has tons of things going on and loves to constantly send me his schedule like a love bomb. He also updates me on his location constantly.

Im the babygirl in the relationship, but he acts in my role a lot of the time and isn’t very assertive and demanding like I would want a daddy to be. We are like complete opposites of how I would want to act.

Anyways Im young so I prefer to feel frisky and have sex on a whim and just do it here and there naturally. He wants to plan it and send his location and times as well as when he’s available due to family reasons.

Sex should not be on a calendar that is robotic and way too precise. I understand we both have obligations, but I’ve expressed how I feel. If Im not available I will simply let him know.

He is sweet and very handsome, but can come on too strong and prepared. I want an assertive man who bosses me around, but also is relaxed in not feeling the need to share everything with me. He is the man after all so I should be the one reporting to him.

He also has planned days for me to be free so we can go shopping at Costco and things which I am not comfortable with due to me living in the area not out yet. Which we actually did I was dressed like I normally am in boys clothes but the eyes on me were crazy. Long story short am I the asshole for wanting my daddy to ease up a bit ?