I'm amab. I've enjoyed being a cis male. But I also enjoy being fem. I feel incredibly sexy when I dress in lingerie. I enjoy sex while presenting as fem. I even enjoy being locked in chastity so that my penis is effectively removed from the situation and is treated more like a clit.

However I don't see myself enjoying presenting as fem outside the context of sexual situations. No desire to dress fem when I go out. No desire to wear makeup or wigs. I have no desire to be a woman.

I love the idea of being able to switch back and forth. Dress like a man during the day and come home and change into some cute lingerie and strut around the house. Even throw on something baggy or more traditionally male over my lingerie if I need to go out for anything.

I can't speak for anyone else who identifies as a sissy or non-binary, but it seems that there's a lot of overlap in that you're not conforming to traditional gender identity. I feel more and more like these are just aspects of who I am. It kinda bothers me when I see someone post about how they "purged" because they were doing something they enjoyed, they were expressing themselves, and then they just threw it all away. Even worse because they frequently come back to it, which makes me think that part of themselves that they are suppressing is just forcing it's way back to the surface. It seems easier to me to acknowledge that I'm gender queer or gender non-binary. Maybe gender queer is just a better term for me personally because queer is a vague enough term that I don't have to try and fit into someone else's box for me.

Idk if this makes sense to anyone else, but I just felt like saying it.